Do you have naughty secrets you don’t want your partner to know? Maybe you had an affair while your partner was away on a business trip? Or did you ever hook up with your ex again after you broke up? Whatever it is, you can be sure you are not alone! We have gathered some of the most saucy naughty secrets you will find in many relationships if you dig deep enough.
The top naughty secrets in a relationship
Even in very open and healthy relationships, partners often keep naughty little secrets from their partners. Quite often, these are somehow related to one of the following things:
- Fetishes and kinks
- Unfulfilled sexual fantasies
- Naughty secrets from the past
Naturally, affairs happen in many relationships. Sometimes partners decide to talk about them, but quite often, they are kept secret out of fear the relationship could suffer. The more sexually experienced you are, the more likely you are to discover new things that turn you on. Quite often, these are fetishes, kinks and sexually fantasies you weren’t even aware of. Unfortunately, many couples find that their sex life turns into routine at some point. This means that unless they are with someone who loves to try out new things, they do not even know what they miss unless they find out in another way.
Naughty secrets – exploring your deepest sexual desires with an affair
Having an extramarital affair is sometimes the only way to explore sexual kinks your longterm partner does not share. For example, many men and women want to try out BDSM, but don’t know how to tell their partners. Sometimes it is easier to share intimate fantasies with a complete stranger. If gives couples room to try out new things without having to worry about what their partner thinks about them afterwards.
Naughty secrets – hooking up with somebody you know
It may sound like an overused porn trope, but many women and men actually fantasise about having sex with someone they see on a regular basis in a semi-public context. This can be the hot mailman or a very attractive bartender or waitress. In other words, a familiar face they see regularly, but never dared to approach directly. Maybe there is even a bit of sexual tension at each encounter, but it is never quite enough for one of the two to take the initiative. In most cases, these flings are harmless and don’t go anywhere. Every now and then when the attraction is mutual, they can result in a steamy adventure – one of the perfect naughty secrets we want to keep for us.